Handling differences.

Gosh, I’m sure there are just dozens of resources out there on the subject of cultural sensitivity, but I think we all know that people are different from one another, especially the further you stray from home. Each set of circumstances requires a different and appropriate response. What is an “appropriate response?” Who knows? However, I believe that the best way to handle cultural differences is by demonstrating sincerity, honesty, and appreciation to whomever you meet. Exercise caution and temperance and don’t always say what you feel, when you feel it, to whomever you wish it. This is not only a simple rule, but it can keep you from committing a “faux pas” (or international incident).

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Appropriate Dress

With the exception of beaches and hotel pool areas, one really needs to be mindful of their dress. Clothes that reveal too much skin (and/or designed to draw notice to your exquisite shape) can be very offensive in many cultures. It also invites unwanted attention and groping. By wearing loose, neat, comfortable clothes in the general public, you can avoid these problems and be comfortable too.

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Dating

Western men must be very sensitive to local customs and restrictions when it comes to approaching women in some cultures. In a predominantly Muslim or Hindu areas, you are not only asking for trouble, but you could also be placing yourself as well as the female in danger. What may be in your mind an innocent exchange of ideas and insights over a cup of tea, could be viewed as a violation of a society's rules.

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Infrastructure Variances

In many parts of the world, you really cannot take for granted that the water you drink, the food you eat, or even the sidewalk you're walking on, is safe. At home—in the western world—we tend to operate on auto pilot; you can't do that in other countries. From walking across the street, to purchasing goods in stores, use sound judgment and caution. Stay focused. As for food, we will cover that a little later.

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Squat Toilets

Throughout Asia, many parts of Europe, and just about everywhere in the developing world, the western style toilet may not be available to you. At first, you may feel a little hesitant about using a squat toilet, especially when you find out that most of them do not provide, or even allow for, toilet paper. Instead, there will be a side sprayer (to spray your anus with after you are done with your business) or little water faucet for the purpose of washing your fingers, along with a bucket and cup for flushing. This is one of those minor cultural differences we just have to deal with. I strongly recommend that you carry a few squares of tissue with you. And even if paper is provided, be careful not to use too much because it can plug up the plumbing.